totally detached..

got invited to a birthday party on sat.. my cousin(biao jie)'s daughter.. n i cldnt even b sure whether it was her daughter's or son's b-day..

we jus sat n ate (buffet style).. only toking among ourselves(me, my sis n bro).. n we were like.. who's tis.. who's that.. i din recog my cousin(biao ge)'s wife.. i had no idea how many kids they had.. hav nvr seen their kids b4..

n my bro was at a lower lvl.. who's that carrying the baby..?
me enlightening him.. ur biao ge) loh..
bro continuing.. then who's the other 1 that looks v young..?
enlightenment continues.. his younger bro - ur the other biao ge)..

well basically i had abt 4-5 cousins that is in my era(70's kids).. so cant blame my bro for not noe-ing them.. the rest of the 10-20cousins r all my bro's era(80's kids) or even younger..

but then again.. u dun even noe wat ur parents does everyday.. so its pretty normal.. not to noe abt cousins' families i guess..

n ya frankly its up to one whether they bother.. n i guess.. i probably dun.. one jus get too distant over the years..